
I'm writing to family members of someone who's living with both Parkinson's Disease and dementia.
You'll note, it's not uncommon for people already living with Parkinson's to develop dementia later in the course of their disease.
This is the case of my father, so I'll be the first to acknowledge how emotionally challenging the process can become.

"Informal Caregivers" like myself seek solid learning resources pertaining to the elder care of both Parkinson's and dementia combined. The purpose of this post is to explain how exceptionally challenging this double-condition is to care for at home, by yourself, without outside help.
These are incurable conditions, and your feelings about them matter.
When the Parkinson's limits mobility and the dementia impairs cognition, what's a caregiver to do?
Overwhelm is common in circumstances like this. You could even call it "Living Grieving", like the "Living Funerals" which have gained popularity in the 2020s.
If you have strong negative feelings about someone having both Parkinson's and dementia, who could blame you?!
Let's not wallow in the pits, and instead rise up to the challenge.

Caregiving for someone living with both Parkinson’s and dementia is a special cocktail of ADLs and confused grieving.
Graycare is NOT a doctor. My family has first-hand experience trying to figure it out. I can try to say what people in these circumstances are feeling, and put it here for my friends to know.
One difference between me and a caregiver complainer, is I go find the best answer I can, and put it here for my friends to know.
[2] University of California Weill Institue for Neuroscience
You can see why something like this can become extra stressful.
To the best of my knowledge there is no specific type of care dedicated solely to the treatment of both Parkinson's disease and dementia together. Contact me if you know the answer.
Many metaphors have been used to describe the grief felt when watching an aging family member's decline. In the case of Parkinson's and dementia and my dad, here's just one example from me: It feels like your dad is turning backwards into a fussy toddler with strong preference.
Certainly certain divisions of memory care which is a type of care associated with dementia Alzheimer's As an industry as many professionals who specialize in patients with dementia and Parkinson's both.
Neurologists are brain specialists who specialize even more into movement disorders like Parkinson's. You'd probably be able to find some doctors with experience treating simultaneous Parkinson's and dementia, but it's likely hard-to-find in most parts of America, and expensive if you do.
A clear resolution, when managing at home care for a family member with not one but two incurable conditions, is difficult to attain.
It’s harder to get good information, in my opinion.
It's more expensive to get care, in my experience.
UPDATE: This blog post was originally posted with a tone of "complaining about my circumstances". In October 2023, this post was revised and re-published to become more helpful to people facing these circumstances.